How to Warm Up Fleshlight

Would you like to learn how to warm up fleshlight sleeves and fleshlights to a comfortable, human-like temperature? If the answer is yes, you’ve made it to the right place.

When it comes to using a fleshlight sleeve for self-pleasuring, there are little tips and tricks you can easily implement to make the experience more like a real life sexual experience, and warming up your flashlight sleeve before each use is one of them.

Unsurprisingly, using a fleshlight that has a sensual temperature is a much more pleasurable experience than simply going in cold, but how do you go about warming it up and how do you keep it warm for long enough to reach your climax? Keep reading to discover the answers. 

How to warm up your fleshlight or fleshlight sleeve

Fleshlights, pocket pussies and fleshlight sleeves are so much more realistic to use when their temperature matches you own. 

Needless to say, a sex toy doesn’t have a body temperature, but here are some methods that can help you give it some. Some of these methods are as simple and as DIY as using hot tap water while others involve electric fleshlight sleeve heaters and and heating blankets. 

Using a fleshlight sleeve warmer

Yes, indeed, actual fleshlight sleeve warmers are a thing, and if you use your fleshlight relatively frequently, investing in a designated warmer is well worth it.

The sleeve warmer plugs intro a power source and lights up at the base to indicate that it is warming up your sleeve. Once the sleeve has reached body temperature, the light will go out to indicate that your fleshlight sleeve is ready.

If you leave your sleeve in the warming device until it cools down, it’ll automatically start the heating cycle again.

Running it under warm water

If you don’t want to invest in a fleshlight heater, there are plenty of other, no-budget DIY methods you can try out instead.

If the temperatures aren’t too frosty, warm water may be enough to warm up a fleshlight to something approximating real vagina temperature. Simply run your fleshlight or fleshlight sleeve under the hot water tap, letting the water pour through the sleeve canal, which is really the area you want to heat up the most. Once your pocket pussy has reached optimal temperature, it is ready to use.

It is important not to use boiling water as it may cause the fleshlight’s inner tube to melt or become deformed.

Blowing hot air into it with a hair dryer

Blowing hot air into your fleshlight or fleshlight sleeve can be an effective way of giving it the perfect temperature. 

Keep in mind that SuperSkin material and other sex toy materials reach differently to heat than human skin, so hold the hair dryer at a safe distance to prevent any scorching or melted edges. Another thing to be aware of when using the hair dryer method is that it can be time-consuming, since you’ll have to stand there holding your fleshlight sleeve and the hair dryer for as long as it takes.

Using an electric blanket

If you own an electric blanket, why not put it to good use? Wrapping your fleshlight sleeve in a warming blanket is a popular method of getting a fleshlight sleeve to your desired temperature.

When using the electric blanket method, be aware that it is only effective for heating up fleshlight sleeves. If your fleshlight doesn’t have an removable sleeve, the warmth emitted by the heating blanket will not be enough to penetrate the outer casing and won’t make much of a different to your fleshlight experience.

How to keep your fleshlight warm

Now that you have found an effective method of warming it up, how do you keep your pocket pussy warm for long enough to use it? Ideally, your fleshlight or pocket pussy should stay warm and pleasant for longer than just a few minutes so that you don’t feel under pressure to finish quickly.

Warming up a fleshlight is one thing, but preventing heat loss is another and just as important. And as you can either imagine or know all too well from personal experience, there is nothing worse than having your flow interrupted by a sudden loss of warmth.

Using warming lube

Using warming lube is a simple yet sure method of keeping warm while using your fleshlight, even if it looses some of its heat mid-action. 

There are plenty of different warming lube options out there, and all of the best ones are water based. If you have sensitive skin, you should be careful not to use excessive amounts of warming lube, but you don’t want to use too little either as you want to achieve a good glide while keeping warm.

Simply lather plenty of warm lube inside the inner sleeve and let it give the illusion of a warm fleshlight.

Using your fleshlight in warm water bath or shower

Taking warm bath or shower after a long and stressful day is always a treat, but it is even more enjoyable if you take your fleshlight with you. Fortunately, fleshlights and fleshlight sleeves tend to be fully water proof and take no damage from being submerged.

This method of keeping warm is as simple as can be, while also letting you skip the step of warming up your fleshlight in the first place. Simply fill a bathtub with hot water – not too hot though! – and immerse yourself. If you don’t have a bathtub or don’t have time to wait for the tub to fill up, a warm shower works too.

Using multiple fleshlights

Yet another way to keep your fleshlight warm for long enough involves using multiple fleshlights and switching them around as you go. Needless to say, this method requires a bit of pre-planning and also more post-coital cleanup than the other methods mentioned here. Still, it is effective.

If you own more than one fleshlight, using all of them in turn while keeping the others warm either submerged in warm water or wrapped in an electric blanket can be the best way to go. This way, you won’t have to worry about keeping your fleshlight warm, as a new, body temperature one will already be waiting for you when the first one starts to noticeably cool off.

Final thoughts on warming up a fleshlight and keeping it warm

Using a warm fleslight sleeve versus a cold one can make a tremendous difference to your overall fleshlight experience. A fleshlight at body temperature is simply in a different league than a fleshlight that is cold and feels like the toy it is.

We hope that you’ve found this article helpful and inspiring and that you’ll try some of the methods mentioned here for keeping your flashlight sleeve pleasantly warm and ready for action.