Long Distance Sex Toys
Are you looking for the best long distance sex toys on the market today?
The boom of interactive sex toys that the world is currently seeing means that two people no longer need to be in the same room or even in the same country in order to experience intense pleasure together.
Are you new to long distance sex toys, virtual reality sex and sex toys with partner control? Then you’re in for a true sexual awakening, because the toys we are going to cover in this article have what it takes to completely transform your sex life by broadening your sexual horizons and breaking you out of the restraints and barriers created by distance.
Interactive sex toys with long-distance control are no replacement for real-life sex with another human being – that’s not the case we’re trying to make. What we are saying, though, is that app-controlled sex technology is as blessing to long-distance couples or even singles who are curious and want to explore the new worlds of sexual pleasure and possibility that open up to you when you are the owner of an interactive, app-controlled sex toy.
So whether you are in a long-distance relationship, travel a lot because of work, or just want to spice up your sex life with your spouse or other sexual partners – there is, quite literally, a long-distance sex toy to please everybody.
Are you ready to discover the best long distance sex toys for both partner and solo play?
What is a long-distance sex toy?
What are long-distance sex toys, and how can they change your sex life and perhaps even your relationship for the better?
First of all, long-distance sex toys are interactive. By connecting to an app and even syncing with each other, the different sex toys we’ll be covering in this article allow you and your sexual partner to interact with each other in ways that simply weren’t possible before.
Interactive, partner-controlled sex toys are on a different level to your regular old battery-powered vibrators and flesh light.
App-controlled sex toys give you the ability to feel your partner’s movements and let them control your own sex toy in real time. Needless to say, this creates a much more intense and intimate sexual experience than if you are simply seeing and hearing each other on video chat. App-controlled toys add that final and most important piece to the puzzle that makes long-distance sex a fully immersive and real experience, namely touch.
Many long-distance toys incorporate motion sensor technology, allowing your partner’s sex toy to respond to your cues and commands, and vice versa. Others let you send request to your partner through the app, inviting him or her to control the vibration modes or up and down motion of your sex toy, while you also take charge of theirs.
There are no barriers with long-distance sex toys
Travelling can be a lot of fun but being away from your sexual partner regularly or for long periods of time can be a problem. A lack of intimacy is a leading reason why relationships – particularly long-distance relationships – fall apart.
Up until recently, long distance relationships have often suffered from of a lack of intimacy and being able to connect with your partner in that special way. Now, however, long distance sex toys are revolutionizing long-distance sexual and romantic relationships by effectively closing the gap. Long distance sex toys are partner controlled, adding that much-needed element of interactivity to remote sex and making it feel much more real and intimate.
But of course, long-distance toys aren’t only for long-distance couples. Imagine being able to have sexual experiences with anyone in any part of the world at will. Well, app-controlled sex toys make it possible.
You know you live in a golden age of tech when you can experience sexual pleasure with people from all over the world, at any time of the day or night, from the comfort of your own bedroom.
Remote sex enabled by interactive toys and apps may still not be the same as the real thing, but at this point, it’s getting pretty close.
How app-controlled sex toys let you and your partner interact
Thanks to technological advances and not least the internet, many sex toys can now be connected to apps which allow you or someone else to control them. And as we all know, the beauty of apps is that they are accessible from absolutely anywhere.
Different apps and different toys offer different levels of customization. While some simply let you set things like vibration modes, up and down motions and so on, some toys also have touch sensitive pads and movements that mimic the touch of your sex partner. Now, that’s pretty mind-blowing!
All in all, sex toys with long-distance control makes online sex a much more viable and appealing option than it ever was before.
What are the best app-controlled sex toys on the market?
Now we are getting to the meat of this article where we’ll be talking about the best, most realistic and pleasurable long-distance sex toys currently on the market. To make the overview a little easier to swallow, so to speak, we’ve broken it down by brand. Let’s start first with a rundown of the best interactive, app-controlled sex toys from the market leaders.
Kiiroo is the current market leader and innovator where virtual and interactive sex toys are concerned. The word Kiiroo stems from Greek and translates into “Master.”
The vision behind Kiiroo toys is to offer a fusion of social network and touch sensor technology in order to provide users with the ability to stay connected – very connected – with sexual partners from anywhere in the world. Kiiro enables you experience sex with a lover or even a complete stranger.
Kiroo was founded by Dutch entrepreneur Toon Timmermans in response to his realization that all virtual sex is, or was, only 2D. In order for virtual sex toys and sexual encounters to become truly appealing options, they had to become 3D. According to Timmermans you should be able to both see, hear and notably feel your partner.
This brief background sets the stage for the Kiiroo products we’re about to discuss.
Kiiroo Interactive Couple Set Titan and Cliona
The Kiiroo Titan and the Kiiroo Cliona make the perfect set of long-distance sex toys for straight couples that want to close the gap of time and space – or couples who simply want to try something new and spice up their existing sex life with these innovative, interactive sex toys.
The Titan is the toy for the penis-haver in the relationship. It is a handheld, touch-sensitive penis stroker with enough customizable settings and intensity levels to keep you coming back for more. The Titan boasts 9 vibrating bullets and a real-feel sleeve for a truly intense and life-like experience.
The Cliona is a handheld clitoral stimulator powered by touch-sensitive technology. Like the Titan, the Cliona allows for two-way pleasure via the app. It is both powerful, waterproof and small enough to slip in your pocket. In other words, you can enjoy it anywhere and at any time you choose.
The Titan and the Cliona sync up via the Kiiroo app, enabling couples to hook up and feel their partner’s touch anytime they want from anywhere in the world. When the Titan and the Cliona are connected via the app, you’ll be able to feel your partner’s touch through the vibrations of your own device, just as they’ll be able to feel yours. The touch-sensitive pads on both devices give you the ability to share your pleasure with your partner as well as to take part in theirs by controlling the speed and intensity of the vibrations of your partner’s toy.
In addition to the ability to connect your device to your partner’s, you are also able to sync it to over 4,000 different videos. In other words, if you want to feel the thrusts and movements of your favorite porn stars in 2D or virtual reality, you can!
Kiiroo Interactive Couple Set Onyx2 and Kiiroo Pearl2
If what you’re looking for is an interactive set of long-distance sex toys designed specifically for (straight) couples, the Kiroo Onyx2 and the Kiiroo Pearl2 set is the best option available.
The beauty of the Kiiroo Onyx2 and Kiiroo Pearl2 couple’s set is that these toys connect via the Kiiroo app and are able to mimic your lover’ personal touch thanks to touch-sensitive technology. The Kiiroo Onyx2 and Kiiroo Pearl2 can be synced with each other via the Kiiroo app, allowing you to feel your partner’s every thrust and move as you have interactive long-distance sex.
The Kiiroo Onyx2 is a touch-sensitive, handheld penis-stroker with partner control enabled. It has several powerful and customizable vibration modes that can be controlled via the app, either by yourself or by your sexual partner.
As for the Pearl2, it prides itself on being the world’s most advanced and sophisticated G-spot vibrator. It is designed with the sole aim of satisfying a woman’s most intimate needs and desires and provides absolutely powerful and irresistable G-spot stimulation and deep vibrations. Like the Onyx2 it syncs to the Kiiroo app and its vibrations can be controlled by you or by your partner’s device.
The Kiiroo Onyx+ is a truly innovative – and highly pleasurable – piece of tech. To put it more plainly, it is an interactive penis-stroker, suitable for men flying solo as well as for couples.
The Onyx+ connects with the rest of Kiiroo’s line of Bluetooth-enabled products (including the Cliona, which we’ll get to in just a moment) for mutually enjoyable and pleasurable video chat sessions. The app also enables you to sync the Onyx+ with just about any other product from Kiiroo’s ever-growing catalogue of pleasure-inducing products.
The Onyx+ features a sleek, glossy black design on the outside and, more importantly, ten contracting rings on the inside. The Onyx+ has three stimulation modes, with ‘Interactive’ being the most interesting and explore-worthy one.
The Kiiroo Onyx+ is made from highly durable, hypoallergenic materials and works well with any water-based lube. Its buttons are touch-sensitive LED, and the powerful Lithium-ion Polymer battery is capable of running up to ten different functions simultaneously while reaching stroking speeds of up to 140 pumps per minute. All in real time.
This brings us to the next point: Versatility. Not only is the Kiiroo Onyx+ sinfully pleasurable, as well as both easy to set up and use, it’s also incredibly versatile and offers an incredible range of different sexual experiences. With the Onyx+ you can enjoy good old-fashioned 2D porn, peruse the pre-encoded xxx video games that it comes with, or plummet the depths of long-distance pleasure enabled by real-time motion sensors and app-control.
The sensors themselves use the most sophisticated technology to simulate human touch, and the effect is rather life-like. Try it once and you’ll understand why the Kiiroo Onyx+ has attracted countless rave reviews online.
If you so desire, you can record both movements and audio for each session, and you can control the impact of both using the Kiiroo app on your smartphone. And if discretion is a priority for you, you’ll be delighted to hear that the platform’s video and audio chat function is fully encrypted and completely private.
The Kiiroo Keon is for penis-havers and their sexual partners who want to give them pleasure, from afar.
The Kiiroo Keon is sleek and elegant-looking black unit which holds a Fleshlight-like stroker with flesh-like, real-feel inners. To customise your experience, you can choose between different inners, some based on famous porn stars such as Skyler Lo and Reya Sunshine. The Keon features a number of buttons, but the real customisation happens in the Kiiroo Feelconnect app.
The Keon has got to be one of the most customizable remote sex toys out there, allowing you or your partner to adjust the frequency, intensity and motion of the device’s movements. The Kiiroo Keon can be synched with other Keon toys, with clapping, music or with adult materials online, which makes it highly suitable for both solo and duo action.
Like Kiiroo, Lovense is all about providing singles and couples with high-quality, powerful toys for interactive, virtual and long-distance sex.
All of the toys available from the Lovense growing catalogue of Blutooth-enabled toys connect to the Lovense remote app, which means they can be controlled by your partner as well as respond to your partner’s device in real time.
Lovense Nora and Max
The Nora and Max toy combo by Lovense is doubtlessly their most popular offering aimed at helping long-distance couples and partners close the gap.
The Lovense Nora is a Bluetooth-powered rabbit vibrator with a powerful thrust, unlimited custom vibration patterns and real-time interactivity, making it must for both solo play and long-distance sex with a partner. Nora syncs with both the Lovense Max, the Lovense Calor and with other Noras so you’re not limited in your choice of partner or activity.
Nora features an undulating body made of safe silicone, and a bulbous rotating head for intense G-spot stimulation. The vibrating ears are flexible and curved to achieve dizzying levels of clitoral stimulation. The vibrations and shape of the ears are designed to deliver just the right amount of stimulation – powerful, but never too much.
The Lovense Nora is the mist fun when it is connected to the app’s control function, which allows your partner to take control of your pleasure. The app has plenty of interactive options to explore, such as adjustable vibration patters and rotation levels.
As for the Lovense Max, this powerful male masturbator features irresistible vibrations and 360 degree contractions that feel so real, you probably won’t be able to tell the difference.
When paired with the app, the Lovense Max offers you a variety of control options to explore, and let us be clear, there are plenty of options for both solo play and interactive fun. In the app, you’er able to control the contraction and vibration patterns to suit your tastes and preferences with just the swipe of a finger. You can also send live requests to a partner via the app and let them take charge of the action.
For couples, the real fun begins when the Lovense Nora and the Lovense Max are connected via the app. But the interactive pleasure that can be experienced using the Lovense remote app and toys isn’t for heterosexual couples only. To be inclusive, the app can also pair two Noras or two Maxes.
Once your toy is synched to your partner’s, the most intense levels of sexual pleasure become possible through two-way interaction, where the toys respond to each other in real time. Couples can also choose to give the other partner long distance control, and the app even lets you save and playback sessions for when your partner isn’t able to join you.
The Lovense Calor is another fantastic and versatile long-distance sex toy from Lovense. The Calor pairs with both the Nora, the Max (either the original or the 2), or with another Calor, giving you plenty of range to suit your desires.
One of the Lovense Calor’s unique selling points is its heat function, which warms the device up to a pleasant and life-like temperature. Combined with customizable vibration patterns and human-like suction, the Calor is sure to make both solo and interactive playtime a highly pleasurable experience.
The Calor is highly responsive, to both you and your environment. Not only can you sync it to other Lovense sex toys, you can also sync its vibrational patterns with the sounds or music in your immediate environment. The Calor also responds to you and increases its vibrational intensity the deeper you insert.
Lovense Lush 3
The Lovense Lush 3 has a reputation for delivering ideal G-spot stimulation, thanks to its bulbous, hug-your-body shape and intense vibration that spreads all over your erogenous zone, delivering uninterrupted sexual pleasure on demand.
What’s more, the Lovense Lush 3 pairs with the Lovense app via Bluetooth and allows for complete partner control. You can create completely customized vibration modes to suit your body’s unique cravings and desires. You can also choose to enable music syncing or sound control.
The Lovense Lush 3 is so discreet and quit enough that you can easily wear it in public, if you so desire. Like all other Lovense products, the Lovense Lush 3 is made from body safe silicone.
Lovense Diamo Once
The Lovense Diamo is a wonderfully versatile app-controlled stock ring. It offers a total of ten different vibration patterns and three different vibration levels for a fully customisable experience.
As a bonus, you can shift the tempo and vibration patterns in order to train your sexual stamina – while experiencing intense level of enduring sexual pleasure, of course). It’s a win-win.
If you have a need for discretion, the Diamo has sound level control and can be almost silent, which can be very handy depending on when and where you’re using it!
It goes without saying that the the Lovense Diamo is made from completely body-safe material. The Diamo is also waterproof, so if you feel like taking it with you in the shower or even in the bathtub or a swimming pool or the ocean, you absolutely can.
The Diamo is surprisingly comfortable to wear for extended periods of time, and if you so desire, you can keep going up to 3 hours thanks to the long battery life.
Lovense Edge 2
The Lovense Edge 2 is an improvement over its predecessor, the Lovense Edge. These improvements include a longer neck, larger bulb and adjustable head which allows you to get the angle just right for your personal preferences.
The Lovense Edge 2 also comes with quiet and discreet dual-whisper vibrators and a greatly improved battery life for up to two hours of continuous playtime. Like many of the other sex toys by Lovense, the Edge 2 has ten different vibrational patterns.
The Edge 2 is waterproof, and of course made from body-safe materials.
Are there any downsides to the Edge 2? Not really. If anything, the vibration power might be a little too intense for some.
Another high-end interactive sex toy provider worth looking at is We-Vibe. This brand offers an extensive range of Bluetooth-enabled toys for both solo and interactive fun.
Let us start by taking a closer look at the most popular We-Vibe toy out there, the We-Vibe Sync.
The We-Vibe Sync might just be the best couple’s vibrator for straight couples.
This small but powerful interactive sex toy is set up to deliver intense stimulation that mimics in-the-flesh intercourse. It is highly enjoyable whether you want to enjoy some solo play or long-distance fun with a partner.
The Sync hooks over the clitoris and goes into the vagina, delivering both internal and external stimulation simultaneously. It really is like no other long-distance sex toy as it is a fantastic clitoral stimulator and vibrator in one. It comes with both a remote control for partner control at a short distance, as well as with app connectivity for long-distance interactive sex.
The Sync’s unique selling point is, of course, its highly intuitive sync function, which is intended to replicate the movements and sensations of human touch. You can also sync its movements to the rhythm of any music of your choice.
We-Vibe Pivot Vibrating Cock Ring
The We-Vibe sync is, of course, most fun if you have a vagina. Fortunately, We-Vibe offers plenty of long-distance toys for men, too.
The Pivot Cock Ring by We-Vibe is fantastic for both solo play and couple’s sex. It features over 10 vibration patterns and if you wish you can use the We-Connect app to remotely control the ring’s vibrational speeds. You can even customise your settings and save whichever patterns you find the most pleasurable – or, you can let your sex partner control the vibrations using the app.
The We-Vibe Pivot has ten vibration patterns and a comfortable design that makes it pleasurable and comfortable to wear in any position, and whether you are flying solo or riding with your partner. The intense vibrations from the ring also provide clitoral stimulation if you have a female partner.
It goes without saying that the We-Vibe Pivot is made from body-safe silicone and is fully rechargeable.
If you are feeling a little adventurous, the We-Vibe Ditto just might be the perfect interactive long-distance sex toy for you.
At only 3 inches, the We-Vibe Ditto is a great anal toy for those who are new to anal pleasure. This butt plug delivers deep yet gentle and pleasurable stimulation directly to your most sensitive spot. Its slim body and adjustable neck makes it seem less intimidating than many of the other butt plugs out there. It is both fun and comfortable to wear – and of course it is also interactive!
Like the other We-Vibe toys we’ve covered in this article, the We-Vibe ditto connects to the app where it lets your sexual partner take control over its vibrations. The Ditto also comes with a remote control, allowing for in-person partner control.
We recommend using the We-Vibe ditto with any water-based lubricant. The ten different vibration modes gives both you and your partner plenty of scope for exploration.
The We-Vibe Nova and the We-Vibe Nova 2 are high-tech vibrations for women and couples. If you are looking for an interactive, versatile toy with ten vibration modes and indefatigable performance, the We-Vibe Nova is one of the best sex toys out there.
The We-Vibe Nova has a flexible and perfectly shaped smooth silicone body that enables it to deliver powerful and continuous stimulation to some of the female body’s most sensitive areas all at once. The Nova targets the G-spot, the clitoris and the vaginal canal with deep, rumbly vibrations. The Nova’s external arm is bendy and can be adjusted perfectly to your specific body.
Like the other We-Vibe sex toys covered here, the We-Vibe Nova connects to the app and can be synched with other We-Vibe sex toys for added amounts of fun – at close range or from a distance.
Nuo is one of several less known brands that are now offering interactive, app-controlled sex toys. Let us take a look at one of their most appealing offerings.
Je Joue Nuo Vibrating Butt Plug
If you are looking for an interactive sex toy that provides plenty of powerful internal stimulation, the Num Vibrating Butt Plug is one of the best options out there. And fortunately, the Nuo Vibrating Butt Plug is a great toy for anal newbies as well as more seasoned pros.
While some don’t like to think of it this way, the fact remains that the anus is an erogenous area of the body regardless of gender. The most sensitive part of the anus is its opening, so there is no need to go for deep penetration if it makes you uncomfortable.
The toy itself is made of body safe silicone and is app-controlled.
What are the best options for gay couples?
Long distance sex toys really are for everyone, regardless of sexual orientation or geographical location. The interactive toys from Kiiroo and Lovense in particular are among the best options for gay couples, too, since it is possible to sync two Onyx+ devices or two Cliona devices just as easily as any of the male-female toy pairings.
Are long-distance sex toys the key to thriving long-distance relationships?
The answer to this question could very well be yes. Long-distance relationships are often made difficult by the factor of distance, and while you can easily video chat with your romantic or sexual partner no matter where you are, the physical sensation of their touch has been missing, until now.
Interactive sex toys with touch-sensitive technology make it possible to sexually interact with your partner across distances and time zones. By syncing your toys up to the same app, you’ll be able to feel your partner’s movements and take part in their pleasure in a totally different way to what is achievable without these interactive toys.
If you’re in a long-distance relationship, or simply want to experience sexual pleasure with strangers from all over the world, interactive long-distance sex toys make it possible.
Final thoughts on long distance sex toys
Gone are the days when two people would have to be in the same bed to be able to have sex. With the advent of toys like the Kiiroo Onyx+ and there are now so many new sexual experiences that become possible, in addition to good old-fashioned in-person sex.
Interactive sex toys are well worth every penny you could conceivably drop on them as they provide you with one of the things we all crave most in this life – more pleasure.
Some may feel hesitant to try interactive sex toys with long-distance control, worrying perhaps that app-controlled sex toys will never be able to replace or replicate the real thing. But that’s not how you should think of these new, tech-driven sex toys. They aren’t here to replace real-life sex with your partner or with another human being. What they are is an addition, so think of them as a bonus.
Thousands of people – and long-distance couples in particular – already swear by interactive, long-distance sex toys because they allow them to quite literally stay in touch when they otherwise wouldn’t be able to. And as anyone who has ever been in a relationship will testify, physical touch and sexual intimacy is a big part of the puzzle of how to make it work. Without sexual connection, most long-distance romances are destined to fizzle out sooner rather than later, or at all.
Even if you’re not part of a long-distance couple, you should still consider getting your hands on some app-controlled sex tech. Why? So you can experience the possibilities and the thrills of virtual and app-controlled sex.
In many ways, long-distance play with interactive toys can feel just as intense, thrilling and pleasurable as sex in person. Don’t take our word for it though – select your favorite toy mentioned in this article, hook it up to the relevant app and start exploring long-distance sex in a whole new way!
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