How to Jerk Off A Guy

Let’s face it, most men know how to jerk off a guy, because they’ve sought out their own pleasure countless times before. But how do you give a guy a hand job if you have never tried it before, and ow can you increase his sexual pleasure by going beyond the standard up-and-down the shaft masturbation technique?

Many guys, even when they are adults, continue to perform the act of masturbation in the same hurried manner that they did when they were adolescents. The same often goes for their partners, as they don’t necessarily know what feels good to their partner.

Whether you are hoping to improve your solo sex life or are hoping to discover the hand job techniques that will turn a man into melted ice cream in your hands, this article was written for you.

How to Make a Man Feel Good When Jerking Him Off

A hand job may seem like a simple sexual activity, but anyone who has ever received one can attest to the fact that there’s an art to it, and that the difference between a half-assed and a mind-blowing hand job is night and day.

Make sure your hands are warm

There is no such thing as a bad hand job – but if there were, it would be a cold one. So, make sure your hands are warm before the fun begins.

If your hands are cold when you are about to give someone – or yourself – a hand job, take a moment to rub your hands together to warm them up. It can also hep to run them under a warm tap if they really need heating up.

Get in a comfortable position

If you are jerking off a guy, it is good idea to get yourself into a comfortable position first, i.e. a position that won’t require you switching positions every thirty seconds. When it comes to jerking off a guy, rhythm is important, so try not to break your stride too often when giving hand jobs.

Sitting behind him is usually a great position to be in, but sitting next to him also works, as does kneeling on a cushion on the floor between his legs.

Use plenty of lube

An easy win is to use plenty of lubricant when jerking a guy off. Not only does lube give a much better glide, it also helps you avoid friction burns.

Water-based lubes are best in most cases, but slippery coconut oil can feel incredibly good and naughty.

Start with the classic up and down technique

The classic up-and-d0wn technique is the simplest yet most effective move when it comes to jerking someone off. If you are masturbating and giving yourself a hand job, use your non-dominant hand as that can feel better and more like it is someone else touching you.

Use three fingers to encircle the base of the penis. You want your grip to be firm, but absolutely not too tight. A guy’s penis is one of the most sensitive areas on his whole body, so don’t be too rough unless he asks you to. It is always better to start out gentle and then increase pressure and speed as he approaches climax.

Once you’re holding his penis in your hand, he’ll probably already be erect. If not, chances are he will be very soon.

Start moving your hand up and down his shaft. You can try different strokes, stroking speeds and levels of tightness of your grip.

Switch hands or take a short break if you need to

Jerking your partner off can be hard on the wrist depending on how long it takes, so don’t be afraid to switch and use the opposite hand if your hand starts getting tired.

Give him eye contact and talk dirty to him

If you are either next to him or in front of him, giving him eye contact can powerfully increase his sexual pleasure, as can a bit of dirty talk if you are comfortable.

Give him a simultaneous blow job

It is no secret that men love blow jobs, so if you want to give him even more pleasure, giving him oral sex while jerking him off can be a powerful catalyst for him experiencing even more intense waves of pleasure.

If you are intending to play with him for a while before you spill him over the edge, consider saving the addition of a blow job for last, when he is getting close to climax.

Get his balls involved

A man’s balls are incredibly sensitive but unfortunately often overlooked during sex. Why not change that and get his balls involved in the hand job you are giving him?

There are many different ways to stimulate a guy’s testicles, but the simplest by far is to simply cup and gently massaging them in your hand. Depending on the position you’re in, it can be more or less difficult to reach. Usually, kneeling between his legs is the best position you can be in when it comes to being able to reach.

If you’re feeling bold, you can also lick and suck his balls. This sure to drive him wild with arousal!

Experiment with prostate play

The penis and ballsack are far from the only parts of a man’s body that are filled with sensitive nerve endings begging to be stimulated.

The prostate is a small gland located inside a man’s body. It is only accessible via the anal canal, which is why so many men (heterosexual men in particular) are so reluctant to allow themselves to experiment with and experience prostate stimulation.

That being said, enjoying prostate stimulation doesn’t affect a man’s sexual orientation. It’s simply a pleasurable part of his body that a female lover is perfectly capable of stimulating, just using a toy.

Because many men are sensitive and reluctant about exploring prostate stimulation, it is important not to touch him in that way without his express permission. If you want to try massaging his prostate, definitely discuss it beforehand to ensure he’s down.

If he is, then great. You can use your fingers or a specially designed toy to reach his prostate and gently stimulate it while still jerking him off with the other hand.

Warning: This may make him come quickly!

Incorporate toys

Adding toys to a hand job can prove that little bit of added spice that the experience needs. From prostate stimulators to automatic male masturbators and flashlights, there are plenty of different toys to choose from.

Mutual masturbation

Mutual masturbation can add a really hot twist to an already deliciously naughty experience.

Most men are very visually oriented, and nothing turns them on more than getting to touch and pleasure their partner’s body while their partner is jerking them off.

Use this knowledge to your advantage and let him touch you while you are still stroking his penis. Depending on what he’s able to reach, you can let him touch and squeeze your breasts, nipples or genitals.

Put on some porn

Bringing video porn into the mix can really switch things up and help you get him going.

Porn becomes a particularly good idea if you are enjoying a solo session and need a bit of extra visual stimulation to really get your blood pumping.

If you own a VR headset, watching virtual reality porn while masturbating is guaranteed to make your penis swell with pleasure.

Use the stop and start method when he’s close to climax

The stop and start method is as simple as it sounds. It involves stopping your hand motion just as he’s getting super aroused and close to ejaculating.

Then, once he’s calmed down a little, you can pick up right where you left off.

If you’re feeling cruel, you can do this multiple times – bringing him close to the edge, then letting him cool off a little bore pleasuring him again.

Practice makes perfect

All of the truly effective hand job techniques are shockingly simple. The up and down stroke forms the basis of any great hand job and can be done in countless different ways, all of them equally pleasurable.

If you are new to giving hand jobs, don’t worry if at first you feel a little awkward and clumsy. Just focus on enjoying the experience and learning what you can from it. Soon enough, you’ll know precisely how fast to stroke, how much to squeeze, whether or not to use toys, and so on.

There’s More to Male Masturbation Than You Think

Did you know that it is possible for a man to experience multiple orgasms?

It is a common misconception that only women are capable of having multiple orgasms, but men are also capable of reaching this elusive state of sexual satisfaction. However, it is essential to keep in mind that a man’s ability to experience multiple orgasms is distinct from that of a woman’s, and that it is contingent on a particular confluence of factors in order to occur.

In contrast to women, whose bodies are physically predisposed to experience multiple orgasms, men must train their bodies in order to accomplish this goal.

Men have the ability to maintain a heightened state of arousal and continue to stimulate themselves or be stimulated by their partner in order to actually achieve another orgasm. Instead of completely losing their arousal and becoming flaccid after the initial ejaculation, men can remain in a heightened state of arousal and come a second time.

Because the act of orgasming and ejaculating are two separate physiological processes, it makes sense that men who want to experience new sensations either during their next solo session or partnered sex will have to learn how to differentiate between the two in order to experience multiple orgasms.

Ways to Masturbate a Guy That May Lead to Multiple Orgasms

Men have access to a number of methods, such as the squeeze technique and the “stop-start technique, both of which can help separate orgasm and ejaculation.

These involve learning to recognise the sensations of impending ejaculation and then pausing or squeezing the base of the penis to prevent ejaculation while continuing to stimulate the base of the penis to maintain arousal and experience another orgasm.

It is possible to use the squeeze technique with a partner, but it requires great communication and knowing when to squeeze.

The Surprising Health Benefits of Ejaculation

Are you aware of the many different health benefits that accrue with ejaculation frequency?

Stress and tension relief is one of its most well-known benefits of ejaculation. Endorphins, which are natural chemicals that can help to reduce stress, improve mood, and promote relaxation, are released during ejaculation. It can also help with sleep quality and anxiety reduction.

Ejaculation has also been linked to a lower risk of prostate cancer. Men who ejaculate more frequently, whether through sexual activity or masturbation, have a lower risk of developing prostate cancer, according to research. Men who ejaculated at least 21 times per month had a 20% lower risk of developing prostate cancer than those who ejaculated 4-7 times per month, according to one study.

What’s more, ejaculation can help men with certain medical conditions, such as benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH) or overactive bladder, improve bladder control. Ejaculation can help to strengthen pelvic floor muscles, which can improve urinary control and reduce the frequency of incontinence.

Finally, ejaculation has been shown to improve immune function. Semen contains immune-boosting compounds such as zinc, vitamin C, and prostaglandins. These substances can aid in the fight against infections and improve overall immune function.

Closing Thoughts on How to Jerk Off A Guy

When jerking off a guy, it is a good idea to experiment with various techniques, such as incorporating sex toys, watching porn, or experimenting with prostate stimulation in order to improve the quality of the hand job experience.

And while you’re at it, why not explore erogenous zones outside of the genitals, such as the nipples, the perineum, the prostate and the anus, all of which are full of sensitive nerve endings, in order to have a more pleasurable experience overall?

In rare cases, provided that you have great communication with your partner, it may even be possible to give him a double orgasm. If you accomplish this, chances are you’ll have given him a hand job he won’t soon forget.