Fleshlight Tips

These fleshlight tips will drive you wild!

Whether you are new to the delights of fleshlights or simply want to heighten your experience with the fleshlight or fleshlight sleeves you already own, the tips we are about to share with you will ensure that you’ll how to get the greatest amount of pleasure out of your fleshlight toy, every time you decide to use it.

There are plenty of good reasons why fleshlights remain among the most popular sex toys out there. No matter which other types of masturbators are invented, fleshlight sleeves are obvious winners because they provide the most realistic sexual experience. Fleshlights are also fantastic for stamina training, in case you find yourself struggling with premature ejaculation or just want to train yourself to last even longer in the bedroom.

There are many different kinds of fleshlights out there, but most of them are designed to mimic real bodily orifices – mouths, vaginas or anuses – in both shape and texture. There are also some fleshlights that are non-anatomical, meaning they don’t mimic any one particular orifice but still provide tantalizing stimulation.

Regardless of which particular type of fleshlight appeals to your tastes, these tips are universally applicable and guaranteed to elevate your fleshlight masturbation time.

It all starts with picking the right sex toy

The first and primary tip we are going to give you is to pick the right fleshlight. If you start out with a toy that isn’t good quality or that’s too tight or too loose for your anatomy, you’re already limited in how much pleasure you can experience.

When choosing a fleshlight or fleshlight sleeve that’s right for you, there are several factors you should consider. Let’s take a look at what they are:

Pick the right size and fit for your anatomy

A good fit is crucial, and for this reason alone it is worth reading some reviews and product descriptions before you select a fleshlight or pocket pussy at random.

While most fleshlights and fleshlight sleeves are built to work for most average penis sizes, some have much tighter fits than others. If your penis is on the larger size it is particularly important to check the measurements of the sex toy you are contemplating. You may think you want a super tight fit, but if the masturbation sleeve is too tight you may feel squeezed or not even be able to enter the opening at all.

If, on the other hand, you are on the smaller size you should make sure to get a suitably tight and not too roomy fleshlight sleeve.

There are also different masturbation sleeve textures to consider. Some have an even and relatively smooth structure throughout while others have different and distinct chambers, each with its own delectable texture.

Invest in a high-quality toy

Investing in a high-end sex toy is always worth every penny, since the quality of your toy determines the quality of your experience. And if you are someone who masturbates regularly – and let’s face it, if you have a healthy sex drive you probably are – splurging some extra cash up-front is going to be a wise choice.

Not only will a high-quality sex toy last you much longer, it will also provide you with a much more pleasurable and intense experience. And if you decide to really go all out and get your hands on a top-of-the-line fleshlight like we recommend you do, it’ll also open up doors to sexual experiences that a lower-end sex toy simply doesn’t.

Fleshlight Launch

The Fleshlight Launch was unleashed on the world four years ago and caused quite a stir. At that time, interactive, automatic male masturbators were still a novel concept.

The Fleshlight Launch, as well as its new and improved reiteration, the Fleshlight Universal Launch, is compatible with most Fleshlight toys and sleeves, and offers a good range of additional customizable features. This automatic masturbator has a powerful yet relatively quiet motor, and is easy to set up and use.

Unfortunately the Fleshlight Launch isn’t waterproof, so if you are hoping to use a fleshlight in the shower or bathtub, the Launch isn’t the one for you.

All in all, while the Fleshlight Launch and not least the Fleshlight Universal Launch are both thrilling and pleasurable sex toys in their own right, there are fleshlights out there that are better and more advanced.

Kiiroo Onyx+

The Kiiroo Onyx+ is a newer and better and more advanced version of Kiiroo’s original Onyx automatic masturbator.

Internally, the Kiiroo Onyx+ is equipped with ten contracting rings that provide a hyper-realistic experience of entering a real bodily orifice. The Onyx+ also has a notably quieter motor than the Onyx 2. e

The best thing about the Kiiroo Onyx+ is that it can be paired with any other Kiiroo toy through Kiiroo’s FeelConnect app, as well as with an ever-growing library of VR porn and sexual fantasy games. What’s more, the Kiiroo Onyx+ is touch sensitive, so when it is paired up with a long-distance playmate’s Kiiroo toy, you’ll be able to feel your partner’s movements and he or she will be able to feel yours. Needless to say, this kind of interaction gives cam sex a whole new dimension.

The Kiiroo Onyx+ is also fully waterproof, so you can take it with you in the shower or even in the bathtub or a swimming pool if you like.

If you are hoping to use your fleshlight for long-distance masturbation fun or simply for a much more immersive masturbation experience, the Kiiroo Onyx+ is among the best choices you could possibly make.

Lovense Max 2

Yet another top-of-the-line Blutooth-enabled fleshlight worth mentioning here is the Lovense Max 2.

The Lovense Max 2 has many similarities to the Kiiroo Onyx+ including Bluetooth connectivity and app control. Like Kiiroo, Lovense has its own app which allows you to pair your Lovense toy with any other Lovenense toy out there, as well as with porn, naughty games and interactive cam sites.

The inside of the Lovense Max 2 is covered in an inflatable, contracting material that makes it feel like a real vagina or anus. The Max 2 is a smart piece of sex tech and can sense how thick your penis is – and exactly how much to contract around it to give you the greatest amount of pleasure. It is worth noting here that the Lovense Max 2 is equally suitable for very thick and very thin penises – as well as, of course, more average penis sizes. The device simply expands or constricts to fit you perfectly, regardless of your girth.

In addition to being app-controlled, the Lovense Max 2 is also equipped with two buttons on its hard shell encasing that enable you to manually set speed and vibration levels.

How to get the most pleasure out of your fleshlight or fleshlight sleeve

Now for a few tips on how to actually get the most enjoyment out of your fleshlight or fleshlight sleeve during naughty solo sessions.

Heat it up before use

Sliding into an orifice with a life-like body temperature is an entirely different experience than sliding into a cold toy, so a real pro tip here is to warm up your toy before you use it.

There are plenty of easy ways to heat up your fleshlight or fleshlight sleeve. One simple method is to immerse it in or run it under hot water (but not boiling hot, you don’t want to melt and deform your toy!) until it reaches a comfortable and appealing temperature.

Needless to say, a fleshlight that has been warmed up using warm water isn’t going to hold its heat for every long, so using an electric blanket or even getting cozy with your toy inside a sleeping bag can give you more time to enjoy a realistic experience.

Use a thick, water-based lube

The kind of lube as well as how much lube you use can greatly influence your masturbation experience whenever you use your fleshlight.

Generally speaking, using a water-based lube is your best option. Water based lubricants are better for your toys as they don’t break down the SuperSkin or silicone material they are made of, and they also give you the most realistic glide and slippery speed.

Of course, not all water-based lubricants are created equal. Some types of water-based lube are thin and runny, which means they won’t give you a good glide.

Always go for a thicker lube and lather it liberally both on your penis and inside the fleshlight, and use more lube than you think you’ll need. That way, when you insert yourself into the fleshlight sleeve, it’ll feel very similar to penetrating a real vagina, anus or mouth.

Mout it for hands-free fun

It is more fun to use a fleshlight when you can do it hands-free. There’s just something about being able to pound into a real skin feeling orifice without having to hold the toy in your hands that makes the entire experience feel much more like real sex.

There are lots of different ways of achieving hands-free masturbation fun with a fleshlight. The best option is usually to invest in a fleshlight mount, designed specifically to hold a fleshlight during rigorous play. You can also get a shower mount or suction cup for your shower wall, which can be a lot of fun and give you an extremely realistic experience. And as a besides, using your fleshlight in the shower guarantees that it stays warm for as long as you need it to.

If you don’t want to shell out on even more costly sex toy equipment, there are also plenty of DIY mounting methods to try out.

One simple method consists in duct taping your fleshlight to a desk or other piece of furniture at a comfortable height. This method works, but it may not be the best option if you don’t want duct tape marks on your toy.

There is also the mattress method where you place the fleshlight betweene the bed base and the mattress with the opening sticking out. To be able to penetrate it, you’ll have to get on your knees and lean in. An advantage to using this method is that, as you place your weight on the mattress, it’ll hold the fleshlight in place while you’re pounding away. If you have a double bed with two mattresses, you may also find that placing your fleshlight case between the two mattresses is the ideal sex toy mount.

A similar approach can be taken using couch cushions. Simply place your fleshlight between a pair of cushions with the opening sticking out. Press down on the cushions to hold the orifice in place as you thrust yourself into it.

Pair it with another sex toy or your favorite adult content

Fleshlight aren’t only suitable for solo fun. If you’ve taken our advice and gotten hold of a high-end, Bluetooth-enabled fleshlight such as the Kiiroo Onyx+ or the Lovense Max 2, you’ll be able to pair your toy with a long-distance partner’s. Needless to say, synching your sex toy with someone else’s gives you access to a whole other level of naughty pleasure.

We frequently recommend Kiiroo and Lovense sex toys because they are Bluetooth-enabled, touch-sensitive and app-controlled. These features mean that any Kiiroo sex toy and any Lovense sex toy can be paired with other people’s Kiiroo or Lovense toys via a designated app. When your toy is connected to a long-distance playmate or lover’s, the two toys will respond and react to each other’s movements, making it feel as if the two of you are in the same room having real sex.

If your fleshlight is Bluetooth enabled, it also means you’ll be able to synch it with Virtual Reality porn, 2D porn and a variety of porn games, reacting to the actions you see happing on the screen or on your VR headset.

All in all, having a Bluet00th-enabled toy makes a world of difference to precisely how immersive and realistic your fleshlight experience can get.

Take your time to enjoy the experience

Although rubbing one out quickly can be fun at times, taking your time to really experience the different sensations is an easy way to instantly take your naughty playtime to another level.

Whenever you can, take your sweet time and luxuriate instead of rushing ahead to a quick climax.

Experiment with different positions and angles

It is always worth experimenting with different positions when playing with your fleshlight. There is more to great masturbation than just the missionary position, after all.

If you have decided to invest in a fleshlight mount or suction cup, exploring beyond the missionary positions becomes a little easier, as you aren’t as limited as to where you can place your fleshlight.

Even if you’re just holding your fleshlight in your hands, trying different angles and positions is worth it for the variety in pleasure and pressure. Try, for example, to twist your fleshlight as you thrust into it. This is a particualrly good idea if you have gone for a flexhlight sleeve with different textures inside – to get the full experience of all of them, you may have to rotate or bend your fleshlight at various angles.

Always clean fleshlight sex toys after use

The importance of always cleaning your fleshlight and other sex toys after each use cannot be overstated. Far too many guys don’t bother cleaning their sex toys and as a result end up with yeast infections (A sad fate you shouldn’t even wish on your worst enemy), or at the very least smelly, mouldy sex toys.

Keeping your sex toys clean and fresh is relatively simple. Whenever you are done using your fleshlight, rinse it thoroughly and then shake off any excess water. Rinsing, however, is not enough, particularly not when it comes to fleshlights. Their varied textures and chambers are what make them fantastic sex toys but also what makes them so damn difficult to clean properly. So, be thorough, don’t skip.

After rinsing, use a bit of sex toy cleaner for added effect, and finish off with some renewing powder if you want to keep your toy feeling new and fresh for longer. You don’t have to invest in an expensive, branded sex toy renewing powder – regular corn starch does the job just fine.

The final step is leaving your toy to air dry.

Final thoughts on fleshlight masturbation

Whether you go for a standard fleshlight or one with Bluetooth connectivity and the new world of options that that opens up for you, this sex toy is guaranteed to provide you with untold hours of fun and pleasure.

Achieving the best orgasms when using a fleshlight is largely a matter of choosing the best quality toy you can justify splurging your hard-earned cash on, finding a way of keeping yur toy warm during play, using plenty of water-based lube, and experimenting with different positions and angles until you know precisely how to work it.