How to Make Girlfriend Horny

Are you ready to learn how to make girlfriend horny? It’s easier than you might think, once you master the three most important keys to triggering a girl’s sex drive.

It takes more to make a girl horny than it does to turn on a guy. We men are more simple creatures, in the sex department anyway. This is what most men get wrong about female sexual desire – they assume it works in the same way for girls as it does for guys, and when it doesn’t, they get confused.

It goes without saying that knowing precisely how to make a girl horny is an important aspect of having a healthy and satisfying relationship with one, but many men struggle to do so effectively. While there are numerous techniques available, it is important to concentrate on three key areas if you want to have a significant impact. 

In this article, we’ll walk you through how to remove a woman’s sexual brakes while triggering her sexual accelerators. We’ll teach you how to effectively flatter her and make her feel desired, as well as specific foreplay and sexual techniques that are sure to get her excited. 

The 3 golden keys to making a girl horny for you

What many men don’t understand about women desire is that it works slightly differently to male desire. For us men, getting in the mood is typically pretty easy. But for women, desire can be more fleeting and more difficult to arouse. 

In other words, there is so much more that goes into making a girl horny than simply knowing the best oral techniques. 

The first key to making a girl wet and wild with desire for you is to make her feel wanted and sexy. If a woman doesn’t feel good about herself, she’s unlikely to want sex at all. Feeling desired can be a powerful trigger for women, making them feel weak in your presence. You can accomplish this by complimenting her appearance, expressing your admiration for her body, and making her feel genuinely appreciated and attractive. You can also make her feel desired in the bedroom by paying attention to her desires and needs. 

The second key is creating intense sexual tension between the two of you. Many men think of foreplay as a quick prelude to sex, whereas women love it when sexual tension is built over the course of an entire day – or even longer! In most cases, women love a slow building tension. Creating tension and an air of sexual expectation can be done through flirting, touching, and sexual foreplay. You can also increase sexual tension by discussing your desires and fantasies, as well as creating anticipation for sexual encounters before they happen. Building tension can seem like a lot of work, but trust us, it’ll be worth the extra effort you put in.

The third key is to concentrate on specific foreplay techniques that work for her. Because every woman is unique, it’s important that you pay attention to what she enjoys and what turns her on. You can try different techniques like kissing, oral sex, or sensual touching to see what works best for her. 

Understanding sexual brakes and accelerators 

Oh, and there is one more thing you need to think about. It’s important to remove any “sexual brakes,” such as stress, anxiety, feelings of being taken for granted, guilt, shame, or any drugs or health issues that may be interfering with her sexual health. If a girl is stressed or overwhelmed, she will find it much more difficult to get horny. Women are not like us men in that sense. For us, sex can be a wonderful way of relieving stress, but women tend only to want sex when they are in a calm and positive frame of mind to begin with.

Some women have more or less sensitive brakes than others, of course. While some women have strong sexual brakes that prevent them from being able to focus on sex if they are worried about a work deadline, for example, others have much less sensitive brakes, which of course makes it easier for you to get her in a sexual mood. 

Once the “brakes” have been removed, you should concentrate on the “accelerators” that will increase her sexual appetite. Women and men are aroused in different ways, and women frequently require a specific feeling before they desire intimacy with their partner. Paying attention to her needs and desires, as well as creating a supportive and safe environment, can help her feel more relaxed, confident, and at ease. 

Making a woman sexually aroused is not a one-size-fits-all solution, and it necessitates paying attention to her specific needs and desires. You can help create a satisfying and fulfilling sexual experience for both of you by focusing on making her feel deeply desired and sexy, building intense sexual tension, and focusing on specific foreplay techniques.

In this article, we’ll guide you through precisely how to awaken a woman’s spontaneous desire. Soon, you and your girlfriend will be having so much fun in the bedroom that your biggest concern will be how to get anything else done!

Key #1: Make her feel wanted and desired by you

Like we’ve already mentioned, the first key to making a girl Horney is making her feel irresistible and good about herself. 

In other words, before the two of you even make it to the bedroom, you want to focus on making her feel wanted by you. Being desired can have a strong impact on a woman, even if it does not have the same meaning for men. 

But, there are some important factors to consider when attempting to create this sensation. If done correctly, this approach should be enough to make a girl horny. So, what’s the secret to making her feel wanted?

Flatter her effectively

Flattering her is one of the most effective ways of making your girlfriend sexy and arousing her responsive desire. It is important to note that all of your compliments and displays of affection should be completely genuine. In other words, don’t love bomb or lie to her – she’ll smell a rat if you do and this could ultimately backfire and be a huge turn-off for her.

So, how do you make a girl horny by flattering her? Complimenting her on things that are important to her is a simple and effective way. Recognize how good she look when she’s clearly made an effort, and compliment her whenever she reaches a personal goal, such as getting in shape or getting a promotion. 

Another effective way to flatter your girlfriend is doing it in front of her friends. You can surprise her at work or in front of her friends, potentially with a thoughtful gift that’ll make her feel wanted. This will not only demonstrate that you adore her, but will also draw attention from her peers. This tells her that you are proud of being seen with her, which is both flattering and gives her a sense of emotional security. 

Another idea is to compliment her when she’s standing around with her friends during a group conversation at a party or other social event. Your compliment can be as simple as commenting on her smile or her dress, or the sparkle in her eyes. The point is to give her a deep feeling of being wanted and admire by you.

Not that it is super important to avoid overdoing it with compliments. Over-flattery can dilute the impact of your compliments and render them ineffective. If your girlfriend is uncomfortable with public displays of affection, it may be best to focus on smaller and more personal gestures in front of her friends, such as asking her about her opinion or what is being discussed, or comment on her beautiful smile. 

To summarise, flattery can be a powerful tool for showing a woman how much you care and appreciate her, but it has to be done with sincerity and balance to avoid overdoing it. Going over the top can have the opposite effect to what you intended.

Show genuine appreciation 

Feeling appreciated is a heady aphrodisiac to most women. Being thoughtful and considerate to your girlfriend outside of the bedroom can have a significant impact on your relationship overall, and not least on the sex life the two of you share. Really, if you want more sex, you need to appreciate her more.

Genuine appreciation can act as a catalyst, increasing her lust, but it can also assist in removing any obstacles or “Brakes” that may be putting a dampener on her desire.

Being considerate means making an effort to make your girfriend’s life easier, which is easy to do through various simple acts of kindness. Here are a few ways to demonstrate your thoughtfulness: 

• Cleaning the house relieves her stress when she is feeling overwhelmed. 
• Helping her with her weekly chores so you can spend more time together. 
• Preparing meals and doing the dishes to reduce her workload.
• Taking out the trash or watering the plants without being asked.
• Pouring her a bath after a long day.

Being thoughtful is, at its core, a way of silently expressing your love and affection for your partner without using words. It demonstrates how much she means to you and how willing you are to make sacrifices for her.

Make her feel special and chosen

Every woman likes to feel chosen and special. 

It’s important to remember that you don’t have to spend a lot of money to make her feel special; in fact, small gestures can often be more effective than grand, extravagant ones. 

Here are a few ways to use the princess principle to make your partner feel special and chosen: 

• Surprise her with small gifts, such as her favourite wine or a fresh bouquet or flowers.
• Send her a text message while you are at work to let her know you are thinking of her. The message doesn’t have to be sexual at all, although it can be. A text message when she knows you’re busy can easily serve the dual function of making her feel special and paid attention to, while also helping you build anticipating for later.
• Plan a surprise getaway or a visit to her favorite restaurant
• Secure tickets for the two of you to go the theatre or to a gig, depending on her preferences. You surprising her with an experience is a perfect way to build anticipation and make her feel desired and cherished

Making your girlfriend feel special not only sets you apart from the other guys in her life, but it also taps into a deeper level of attraction, making her yearn for you.

Work on yourself

It is not enough to simply make your girlfriend feel good through flattery, compliments, appreciation, and thoughtful gestures to make her feel sexually aroused. You also have to work on improving yourself and making yourself more attractive in her eyes.

This includes maintaining a baseline level of fitness, wearing clean, well-fitting clothing, and practising good hygiene. These are the simple basics that any woman appreciates, but it is also a good idea to find out if there are any specific physical characteristics or habits that really turn her on, such as being smooth or having more body hair, wearing a specific cologne, and so on. Once you’re aware of her preferences, you can incorporate them into your life in a subtle way to make yourself more attractive to her.

Eye contact

Never underestimate the power of eye contact. 

Maintaining eye contact with your girlfriend is absolutely essential for communicating your physical desire for her.

It’s important to strike the right balance, though, so you don’t make her uncomfortable. That being said, extended eye contact can be a powerful way to communicate your desire for someone, without using your words or physical touch.

Physical touch and affection

One of the best and most effective ways of making a girl horny is to simply be physically affectionate with her whenever you get the chance.

Little things like putting your arm around her when the two of you are watching TV, or massaging her shoulders, will help her feel relaxed and put her in a good mood, but it’ll also provide the perfect segway into foreplay.

Key #2: Build sexual tension

Now we are finally getting to the real meat of this article. Once you master the basics of making the woman in your life feel appreciated and desired by you, it is time to concentrate on building sexual tension. This is, of course, when things start getting fun.

Creating sexual tension can boost a woman’s sexual desire and interest. It’s that feeling of wanting to undress each other but holding back.

Here are our top tips for building sexual tension and making your female partner horny as hell for you.

Tease her

Start by teasing your girlfriend in a playful and fun way to build the sexual tension between you. There are so many different ways to do this that it is impossible to sum them up in a sentence. 

Fun, lighthearted banter with a sexual undertone is a great way of teasing her sexually. Just make sure that your teasing does not come across as mean or hurtful. Always deploy a cheeky smile and a playful tone should be used. 

An example of an effective way of teasing her would be to playfully spank her when the two of you are joking around. 

Use innuendo 

Innuendo can also be an effective way to increase sexual tension, but it has to be used with caution. Some women enjoy it, while others may find it crass, so it’s always read the room and assess your girl’s reactions and adjust your approach accordingly. 

Innuendo is a way of playfully and indirectly talking about sex, by implying and drawing parallels. You could, for example, comment on how big the banana she is eating is, and how seeing her nibble at it is making you feel some type of way. This is sure to make her blush while also putting the idea of sex in her mind.

Inspire a sense of anticipation

A sense of anticipation is perhaps the most important aspect of creating sexual tension. 

Anticipation can create a feeling of excitement and longing. Sending suggestive texts, whispering dirty suggestions in her ear, leaving notes in places you know she’ll find them, or telling her what you’d do if you were alone can all help build anticipation and make her super horny for you. 

Another way of building anticipation is to use physical touch. This can be done either at home or in public, provided that you are discreet. In fact, teasing her physically in public may be a huge turn on for her. An example could be discreetly pinching her nipples or putting your hand on her butt in public. Combine this with whispering some naughty ideas or fantasies in her ear.

Remember that all women are different and may have slightly different things that trigger them. It’s important to pay attention to what turns your girlfriend on, so that you’ll know how to do more of it.

Key #3: Pleasing her in bed and giving her powerful orgasms

When you finally get her into bed, you need to know how to deliver on the implicit promises you’ve made through the previous two steps. You’ve laid all of the ground work, and now is the time to not only enjoy your reward, but also make sure you satisfy her with the most powerful orgasms of her life so that she’ll want to do it all again next time.

It gos without saying that sex, if you are single and are simply having some fun and sleeping around, is much simpler than it is when you are in a long-term committed relationship with someone. The latter may take way more work, but the upside is the emotional connection and the fact that you have better access to sex, provided that you know how to turn your girlfriend on.

Now, let us look at some specific techniques you can deploy that are guaranteed to help you give her great orgasms that leave her wanting more of your magic touch:

Prime her body and her mind with your touch

When it comes to foreplay with a female partner, slow is usually the way to go. Remember that it can take longer for women to really get in the mood, so do your best to now make her feel rushed. 

Start slowly and gently by simply caressing her. This makes her feel not only horny, but also wanted, desired and admired by you. In a word, it makes her feel cherished and therefore comfortable with your touch. 

Women have so many other erogenous zones than just their breasts and vagina, so start by caressing her neck, stomach and thighs with your hands and with your tongue. Adding a few sincere compliments into the mix is only going to spice things up and add fuel to her slowly building fire.

Of course, foreplay is not only for her – it should also be enjoyable for you. You’ll most likely already be getting an erection at this point, and this can be a powerful way of showing her how much you desire her. While the two of you are still dressed, you can press your erection against her thigh so she’ll feel how hard you are for her.

Go down on her

Many women feel uneasy or nervous about receiving oral sex, so do your best to make her feel at ease and relaxed while you go down on her.

Begin by kissing and caressing your girlfriend’s other erogenous zones, such as her lips, neck, and breats. Work your way down to her inner thighs, and finally to their vagina. 

The missionary position is one of the most popular for giving a woman oral sex, but if it becomes too painful for your neck, consider placing a pillow under her hip to raise them a little. And if your girlfriend is really in the mood, ask her to sit on your face or try the 69 position, which can result in simultaneous and intense orgasms for both partners and is definitely worth a try. 

Because every woman is different, there is no one-size-fits-all approach to giving her oral sex. That being said, the clitoris and vagina contain an insane number of of nerve endings between them and can be extremely sensitive, so it is important to pay them both the proper attention.

When you are going down on her, begin with broad strokes with your tongue, then vary your movements. 

If you have the presence of mind to focus on other parts of her body, try squeezing her breasts or pinching her nipples while you are licking her. 

Talk dirty/compliment her

Some women find it an absolute turn on when their man is able to use his words and isn’t afraid to use them. This is one of those things you need to find out about your girlfriend – does dirty talk turn her on, or is she more into romantic compliments?

If you know that our girl gets turned on by dirty talking, use your words as much as you dare. talking dirty can feel weird if you are not used to it, so it can be a good idea to practice a few times when you are alone, so the words can flow naturally once you and your girlfriend are caught in the heat of the moment. 

Talking dirty to your girlfriend while you are touching her body and doing unspeakable things to her can stimulate her almost as much as your touch.

Ask her what she likes

It is a good idea to get your girlfriend to talk about what she likes and dislikes sexually long before the two of you make it into the bedroom, but it only adds to the experience when you ask her during sex whether she likes what you are doing or would prefer it some other way instead. This gives her a feeling of being in the driver’s seat of your shared sexual experience.

Asking your girlfriend what she likes while the two of you are already having sex can be an exciting way of allowing her to shed her inhibitions. 

Stimulate her G spot

Try licking her vagina with one or two fingers inside her to stimulate her G-spot. 

Make small stroking movements along the vaginal wall, where the G-spot is located, with your fingers facing you. 

If you are finding it difficult to locate her G spot, try to iagine entering a room through a door, then looking back and seeing a wall clock hanging above the door. This area is part of the clitoral system and is about 2 to 3 centimetres from the vaginal opening. 

Stimulating the G-spot will almost certainly result in a pleasurable sexual experience, and if you keep going, a powerful orgasm.

Lube up

Using a warming or tingling lubricant can add extra oomph to the intimacy and intensity of the sexual experience, so don’t hold back from lubing up. 

Besides, using plenty of lube can make intercourse much more comfortable for your girlfriend, as it gives a better, more friction-less glide.

Experiment with different sex positions and techniques

There are so many different positions out there that sex can never get boring as long as you and your girlfriend are willing to explore and experiment together.

If the two of you are in a brand new relationship, it is probably a best idea to start with some basic sex positions and techniques, and branch out from there once the two of you have gotten truly comfortable with each other. A rich, exciting and satisfying sex life always has to strike a balance between the familiar and the novel.

When you are both feeling ready for it, there is plenty of sexual territory that the two of you can explore together, from tantric sex to BDSM. Of course, some people prefer more straightforward, stripped-back and romantic sex, so don’t feel under any pressure – and don’t pressure your girlfriend – to try all sorts of kinks and fetishes if the interest simply isn’t there.

Try using sex toys

Sex toys provide a wonderful way of spicing things up in the bedroom, no matter whether the sex you have is more adventurous or vanilla. 

Sex toys have been designed and crafted with pleasure in mind, and are built to fit and please the male and the female anatomy to perfection. Sex toys can also give you added superpowers in the bedroom, particularly if you are still relatively inexperienced when it comes to pleasing your partner. With a sex toy, you get the confidence and reassurance that you will be able to satisfy her most intimate cravings.

Final thoughts on making your woman horny and improving sex life

All in all, making a girl horny boils down to three main keys: Making her feel appreciated and desired, building the tension between you, and finally satisfying her sexually when you finally get her into bed with you.

The first aspect, making her feel appreciated, can seem rather ‘boring,’ compared to the fireworks of the sexual experience itself. Still, it is important to make her feel wanted, loved, and desired, and to take away the stresses that might inhibit her sexual desire. If you do it right, your relationship is already one that makes her feel loved and wanted, so if this is the case, this basic requirement is already a constant in your life. If, on the other hand, you are not treating your girlfriend with as much appreciation as she deserves, work on this step and your sex life will soon improve.

The second aspect, building sexual tension, can be a lot of fun for both of you. During this stage of things, you’ll be building your own anticipation as much as you are building hers. There’s an art to building tension – it’s called the art of seduction.

Finally, there is the sexual act itself and the techniques and methods you use to thoroughly satisfy her. While experience definitely builds more confidence in the sexual department, simply paying attention to her wants and needs, and taking your time to focus on her erogenous zones, can go a long way towards making her desire you beyond belief.